Most of us are the walking wounded. We are working on self, trying to put together the pieces we have left. Whether it be from loving the wrong person, being unappreciated, a friendship ending, a disagreement with a family member or praying for something and it feels like radio silence on his end.
Healing is not a one time thing. Its process is similar to the grieving process. It has stages and sometimes you have to repeat them. You are grieving a lost innocence in childhood, the hope you had that something would work, the dream you had that was deferred but now is non existent,the baby that never came, the job you hate, the babies that came and caused you to coparent with a lame! It’s all apart of a process.
Healing is a journey that has many different stages, some you have to visit more than once. It is painful and exhausting sometimes. But, continue to do the work. Set the boundary, get the feelings off your chest, affirm yourself often and give grace when you aren’t feeling your best.
Grief comes in waves to make you sit in those feelings and learn when you need to work on something. Healing is the same, but if you do the work..when it spins the block the intensity will be lessened.
Trust the process of healing,. The scars may remain, but they are there to let you know how far you have come. Always remember scars can’t heal if you keep picking at them.
Be amazing today! Give grace to yourself and others. You never know what someone is dealing with.
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